Giving Kids Some Autonomy Has Surprising Results

In a polarized nation, one point of agreement deserves more attention: Young adults say they feel woefully unprepared for life in the work force, and employers say they're right.

In a survey by Gallup and the Walton Family Foundation of more than 4,000 members of Gen Z, 49 percent of respondents said they did not feel prepared for the future. Employers complain that young hires lack initiative, communication skills, problem-solving abilities and resilience.

There's a reason the system isn't serving people well, and it goes beyond the usual culprits of social media and Covid. Many recent graduates aren't able to set targets, take initiative, figure things out and deal with setbacks - because in school and at home they were too rarely afforded any agency.

Giving kids agency doesn't mean letting them do whatever they want. It doesn't mean lowering expectations, turning education into entertainment or allowing children to choose their own adventure. It means requiring them to identify and pursue some of their own goals, helping them build strategies to reach those goals, assessing their progress and guiding them to course-correct when they fall short.

The full text of this editorial can be found here: https://www.nytimes.com/2025/01/02/opinion/children-choices-goal-setting.html